Thursday, April 1, 2010

Gimme a break!!

Some people are unhappy and want to be sure that NO ONE around them are. Sometimes I wonder why this happens..why are they unhappy? And why are they allowing the unhappiness to take control of their lives? Kesian, isn't it? Worse part is, indirectly ours too!! Ugghh....

Of course there are always ups and downs in life; I face that too, for god's sake! If it's not my hubby, then it's the kids. Or the work. Or the financial. We all do, don't we? But personally I find it amazing how a quick nap can help. With all the unessentials put on hold, I can unwind a little and get up in a better state of mind. We all know it's ridicolously easy for life to spin out of control sometimes. But we all need to press the "reset" button and move on.

I can't help it, but to "observe" this particular person who unfortunately happen to be near me day in and day out. Her negativity about almost everything and everybody around her is driving us crazy! I would start the day (again, unfortunately with her just 5 feet away) listening to her complaining & cursing. It would go on & on the whole day till we leave the office!

I wonder what kind of life she must have had to make her become like that...Was it the miserable childhood? Loneliness? Emptiness? Hatred? I just can't figure it, but I'm sure it's a mixture of everything that created that kind of product! Again, kesian, kan... The dangerous part of this is, negativity is contagious you know! The bad wave is so strong that it can destroy the whole place with so much unhappiness. And I'm talking about MY happiness here, ok... So much so, I'm dragging my feet to work everyday! Huhuhu...

Help! Help! Help! Someone help me!

2 comments:

  1. ...jgn biarkan diri anda diselubungi masalah orang lain...wat u hv to do is, masuk telinga kiri, kluar telinga kanan....hihih..

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  2. Atau, anda pergi aje ke office dgn berselubung supaya x nampak and x tak dengar anything... hehe. Amacam?

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